Remembering Mothers in Peace and War

Today, as we celebrate Mothers around the world, I would like to share a story often told by our late Mother, who served in WWII – Corporal Audry Rutherford Stafford, Royal Canadian Air Force.  It’s the story of one of the most exciting days of her life – when she performed at the halftime show at Grey Cup 1943.

Mother grew up in Edmonton during the Great Depression.  When she turned sixteen and decided to find a part-time job, her father, Charles Rutherford, reminded her, that in those dark days of the ‘dirty thirties’ even men couldn’t find jobs, and that she would likely ‘wear out her shoe-leather‘ long before anyone hired her.

Audry Rutherford and her mother Dorothy Woolsey Rutherford

Audry and her mother, Dorothy Woolsey Rutherford, in front of the family home, in Edmonton, 1936

Determined to find work, she took a street-car to the Eaton’s store in downtown Edmonton, walked in, boldly approached one of the clerks, and asked how she might find a position at the store.  The clerk answered – ” wear a crisp, white, blouse, and a navy skirt, and come early in the morning, when the store opens, and ask to speak with the hiring manager”.  The advice worked, and she got a job as a sales clerk.

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                                                                                     photo:  Jasper Avenue, Edmonton, 1936

In 1939, the Second World War broke out in Europe.  As the next few years passed there were an increasing number of recruiting posters across the country, as more soldiers were required for the war efforts overseas.  Her brother Jack went to sign up, but because of his poor eyesight was rejected.  Hearing this, she grabbed her hat, headed down to the recruiting office, and signed up that day.  “Someone needs to represent the family in the war efforts“, she said.


After completing her basic training at the Rockliffe Air Base in Ottawa, and another round of training at St. Thomas, she was posted to the No.8 Bombing and Gunnery School in Lethbridge, Alberta.  It was while she was posted there she met a dashing young soldier by the name of ‘Tib’ Stafford, a charming lad from Drummond Township, Lanark County.


Photo: Tobias ‘Tib’ Stafford and Audry Rutherford when they first began their courtship, downtown Lethbridge, Alberta 1943.


Corporal Audry Rutherford  RCAF  WD,  on a visit home to her parent’s place, in Edmonton in 1943.

Something very exciting was ‘brewing’ on the air base……

For the first time in Canadian history, a select group of airwomen were sent from their air bases to train as Physical Education Instructors. Twenty-one women in total were selected for this prestigious program, sent for a five-week training program, and were immersed in various active sports, exercises, developing team spirit, studying general health practices, and recreation.

Classes were held at the Margaret Eaton School in Toronto, and while many of the classes were conducted in lecture form, ‘Peter’, the skeleton, was used in the study of anatomy.

Section Officer, Ruth Jernholm, was in charge of the group. Miss Jernholm was a graduate in physical education from the University of Denmark, Copenhagen. She had come to Canada with her sister in 1929 and began her career teaching children in the Winnipeg public school system.

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First Phys Ed Instructors

A highlight for these girls in the program was an invitation to perform at the half-time show at the 1943 Grey Cup game, held on November 27th, in Toronto. It was a day not to be forgotten, and a story told and re-told by our late Mother.



WWII women

                                                                    photo left:  Audry Rutherford

Graduates of the first Physical Education Instructor’s Course

RCAF Women’s Division:

L.A.W. Phyllis L. Reid, Toronto, Ontario
Cpl. Joy Galloway, Hamilton, Ontario
A.W.1 Naomi Carley, Consecon, Ontario
L.A.W. Margaret Chase, Aylmer, Ontario
A.W.1 Elizabeth Ann Tompkins, Port Credit, Ontario
A.W.2 Mary Crew, Barrie, Ontario
Cpl. Mary Howden, Vancouver, British Columbia
A.W.1 Helen Rocke, Vancouver, British Columbia
Cpl. Ethel M. Boyce,Vancouver, British Columbia
A.W.1 Maureen S. Martin, Vancouver, British Columbia
L.A.W. Violet Peck, Edmonton, Alberta
A.W.1 Audry Rutherford, Edmonton, Alberta
Cpl. Elizabeth Currer, Port Kells, British Columbia
A.W.1 Kathleen Mowbray, Cloverdale, British Columbia
A.W.2 Ethel McCully, Medicine Hat, Alberta
Cpl. Estelle Marcotte, Verdun, Quebec,
L.A.W. Nona Butts, Victoria British Columbia
A.W.1 Anne Turner, Victoria British Columbia
Cpl. Grace E. Nicoll, Mannville, Alberta
A.W.1 Mary Schommer, Leipzig, Saskatchewan,
Cpl. Alice Cuthill, Winnipeg, Manitoba


And so, today, as each of us remembers our own Mothers, let us also take a moment to remember the women who have served, and continue to serve their countries proudly, in times of peace and war.

Cpl Audry Rutherford

Happy Mother’s Day!

“At the going down of the sun……and in the morning
We will remember them.”                  

Lawrence Binyon

Women salute



Until we meet again…


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Arlene Stafford-Wilson

3 comments on “Remembering Mothers in Peace and War

  1. Jackie says:

    good one

  2. Karmen says:

    Hi, my name is Karmen. I am a great grandchild of Mildred Grace Rutherford, a daughter to Dorothea Woolsey, daughter of Mary Jane Foster. Unfortunately, I have having difficulty finding information on this side of my family tree and found your posts. I would love to get some dates and information from you if you have the time to share!

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